Hi, I'm in need for a special protection charm, or blessing.
In the middle of July I'm gonna give birth to my second child, which unfortunatly I'm giving to adoption. Because life kick my butt few times, or I'd rather say "it was kicking my butt for few last years with small breaks for breath", I don't feel strong enouth to create a proper charm or spell by myself alone. It have to work strong, and I'll be able bind the kid with the spell in hospital only. After 48 hours we will be separeted by the adoption center.
If anyone have an idea how to start or have something I could use as a base spell - I'll be gratefull.
Re: In need for protection... By: Nekoshema / Novice Jun 25, 2013
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little confused who the spell is for, is it to protect the child when it's at the orphanage/growing up? or for a safe birth for both of you? i follow more Egyptian deities, if you don't i don't know how well this would work, but you could try calling upon Bes for protection when you're at the hospital about to give birth. he is seen as the protector of the home, especially mother and child, so many would have a statue of him in the home, and pray to him for protection when giving birth. you could ask him to watch over your child and help he or she find a loving safe home. Taweret or Isis are also linked to children so you could try asking them for help, but i'd go with Bes if you're looking for protection and a home.
i don't know if you're aloud to give the child a charm [probably not] so i'd either look for a protection chant, or make one. if you can give the child a charm to keep, go for a peridot or tiger's eye.
First I would like to give my sympathy for what you have had to go thru and for what you will go thru in the future. I suggest that you keep a journal and write down all of your thoughts and feelings about this event. I would also write down what hopes you have for your child, any spells that you have cast or want to cast and when he/she is born take a lock of his/her hair, a q-tip that you swab the inside of his/her cheek with and carry some dragons blood ink to get your own set of hand/foot/fingerprints with and put them all in the book. (You might want to do this in private and dont let anyone see you do it as well as dont tell anyone that you plan to do these things or that you did it)
I must point out the while you can't hold your baby in your arms now, he/she is INSIDE of you right now! This is the BEST time for you to bond and charm the both of you. Don't wait until he/she is born, take advantage of your special bond, both spiritual and physical, with the baby now!
As I mentioned some of the things above that you can do above for keepsake in the journal, realize that the swab, hair and prints have magical uses to connect you with or send energy to the child whenever you want in the future. The hair and slyiva both contain his/her DNA which is specific to only that child, ajust as the prints are specific to only him/her. You can use them in any magical practice you choose for many dozens of years, if not hundreds of years. Keep the q-tip in a sealed ziplock baggie with all the air squeezed out of it. Make a charm with the hair so that you have it close-by or make or q-tip into bookmark for your journal or book of shadows to keep you in the mindset that its a magical tool for you to connect with the child. They also offer ceramic cast hand/feet prints at the hospital in many places... you could getthese done and use it on your alter or put herbs as nd other magical things in the casting imprints to send out certain kinds of energy in your magical workings. These are just thoughts, maybe you dont want reminders around... in which case read below of the other things you could do.
As far as protection, I would meditate, starting now, and vision you and the child sharing the bond that no one else will ever share with him/her, send your love, good wishes, luck, wisdom and protection of the spirit/energy that you follow/worship.
Another great thing you can do is to meditate, astral connect to or just talk out loud to the child's guardian(s)/guide(s)/angel and ask to keep you spiritually connected and allow your energy to be allowed to reach him/her strongly and instantly. Make friends with the spirit guide(s) and start a bond with him/her/them... it may pay dividends in the future more than you realize.
I agree that you need a surplus of energy to send out in magical workings, but remember, love and intent are the most powerful kinds of energy there is so don't think for a second you can't pull off some protection energy for the child!
Do what feels right to you and know that it will be powerful and VERY affective.
The charm I need for the kid suppose to simply keep it safe and out of trouble. I'm trying to find him/her a new family. I can save at least a minimum contact between us. Orphanage won't give me that chance. Yet, I wan't to make sure the kid will be fine. I'm giving it right a way when living the hospital.
While I think its obvious and common sense, I will point out that the parents you chose will have more to do with the child's safety and him/her staying out of trouble. I would make up a magical chant that gives the child strength with hope, guidance, luck and love and start singing it to her now. Anytime in the future you could sing/chant when you feel he/she might need it... or do it all the time like while you do dishes or whatever task allows you to run on autopilot and sing/chant while you send her energy out to him/her. I think its going to be a girl.. I keep typing "her" every time.
Other than that, search around for spells that are fitting and cast them when you are in private with her.
You've already helped me a lot :) I've got so lost lately that I haven't thought about all this. On the other side I'm very weak (both - physsically and mentally) and this should have to do. The families I'm speaking with about the adoption lives in the other parts of my country, so I wanted to be extra sure that it's gonna be okay.
The doc say's it's going to be a girl, but I'm not sure. From the other side - any ideas for a good strong name for a girl? :)
I'm happy I have helped. Do you get to name her? Is she going to keep her name? I'm not sure of a name right now but I suggest looking at the meanings of Baby names and find one that sounds/feels right. :0)
I like the name Devin though, what ya think?
So it happenned that... I kept the child. She decided to make me a surprise and woke me up at 3 o'clock on july 11th, to be born one and a half hour later.
I want to thank you all for help and (what you propaby don't know) keeping my depression shut. Now I don't have much time to be here, but I'll try :)
Thank you all once again and blessed be :*
And by the way - I named her Gabriela Charlotte. :)