My ex boyfriend and I met in June and we an incredibly strong passionate connection. This lasted for about three weeks and it ended when I felt he didn't care for me anymore. I have been in a deep depression since and I think of him constantly. He told me that he does love me but we were like star crossed lovers and couldn't be together because his friends did not approve. I try to contact him but I have no response. Is there any specific spell that might help to restore our previous connection? Thanks for viewing. Any help is greatly appreciated :)
Re: Second chance with an ex By: Alvastar Dec 27, 2012
Post # 2
I see three things that you immediately need to consider upon reading your post:
Your emotional well-being is dependent upon another.
The person you want to be with cares more about what others think than what they do.
Are you willing to always be questioning if they came back to be in a relationship with you of their own free will or through magic? This leads to the, "do they really love me," question.
If you are find with all three of those, then yes, there are plenty of spells or rituals to bring them back to you.
Honestly, though, you should be able to love yourself and be happy without having to be in a relationship with someone. They should just be the icing on the cake in your life, not the melt-in-your-mouth filling. Too many people miss that point.
Re: Second chance with an ex By: SueLearning Moderator / Adept Dec 28, 2012
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Move on! Don't make yourself miserable pining away for someone that no longer loves or cares for you. Do not do any "Love Spells" those will only make matters worse. Just move ahead with your life if your not together than your not meant to be. The sooner you accept this the better off you will be.
Re: Second chance with an ex By: Kali228 Dec 28, 2012
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I am so stuck on my ex that I am unable to move on. I know what my mistakes were that drove him away and I just need to restore our connection so we can start fresh. I'll prove myself to him because I know he felt the same connection and must feel something for me. I think he is testing me to prove my worth. Any spell recommendations for me to be able to pass this test. Thank you again for viewing and any specific help anyone can offer.
Re: Second chance with an ex By: Alvastar Dec 28, 2012
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I feel the need to reply to your latest post, Kali, because I care. So, I do hope you take all of this to heart.
You do not need to prove anything to anyone.
Actual, healthy, relationships involve people accepting each other's good and bad qualities and loving them anyway. If you even get the idea that you have to perform some task in order to be in a relationship with someone, it's not a relationship; it's a contract, and one that isn't in your favor.
This boy, because that's what he is, is not worth your time and is toying with you. Please wake up and see that.
Re: Second chance with an ex By: brad123 Dec 29, 2012
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well, there could be a number of reasons he can't talk with you one I have seen this before, if a guy gets a cop angry or a ex cop or he or his family members work for the government they could or can stop connection with you if you have a internet boyfriend, now if it's a matter of not calling you or meeting you that's a different story, the government can't stop connections with physical people, a friend of mine once angered a ex cop and he was angry and in fact beyond angry he was furious, as angry as a many head dragon or tiger being angered and provoked, so he stopped connection wit these two lovers with connections, favors, and bribes, anyways that's what I have heard I am not sure if it's a 100% true, anyways but if it's none of those reasons just forget what I just said and listen to this, I think if you became friends again, communicated more if you haven't, talk things out when you are angry and settle it in agreement, forgiveness or settle it calmly, also if he's being a bad boy and cheating on you hen set boundaries or allow yourselves to have other partners for sex or multiple lovers, you could make so he only has sex with them with little or no emotions, or allow him to love another woman as much as you, and set dates like every other day you have sex with him while she has the other days, make it a equal amount of sex time, the greeks did this and also the ancient hebrews had multiple wives, also spend time with him as a friend get to know hime and each other more, and then become lovers again, then do a love spell or a sex spell, if you don't want to fool around with his will then don't do it, anyways as long as he is willing to do these things, even if he does it a little, it means he still has a lot of feelings for you, it may start out slow, then your relationship will become stronger, also I would suggest seeing a love and sex guru, he or she will show you love and enlightenment.