That's probably because it's all you have talked about on here, or at least that's all I've seen you talk about in posts so far. People make judge based on what you talk about or post about, so the way they see you is on you not them. You want people to think you're here for more than just that then show them don't sit around complaining about what they think you're here for.
Isis you received the answer to that question in a previous thread, and as I told you then love spells are here on this site and in books because some people do cast them. How you cast and what spells you cast are up to the practitioner. Thus, some use such spells and some don't, hence, why there are here on the site and in books.
Individuals that don't believe in using them or that know their consequences will say not to cast such spells, but individuals are free to choose if they do or don't cast such spells. This of course is again why the spells are here and in books. Casting spells are up to the individual. Authors of books and the site admin feel that, that choice is up to the individual and therefore have the spells so that members can decide on their own whether or not they use them.
The spells on this site were posted by individuals that have used them and see no issue with them, however, other members might disagree with their use. Those spells are there for anyone that wishes to use them. That is why they are there. Do you understand now?
Neither of your posts (at least none of the ones I've seen) asked that. You asked about love spells. Your original statements, from this post and a previous one were as follows:
"been on here nearly 2-3weeks only got a couple people said im here 2cast luv spells rong im not just2 re-learn thats all"
"Whys it im told dont cast luv spells it plays with 3will this site has half that do it and why are they in books? B.b"
Had you asked if it were possible to bring the two of you closer, the answer would have been yes. However, you didn't ask that. That being said, it is possible to strengthen the bonds between you. I believe that there are a few spells here on the site for such a purpose, or you could also write your own.