I've had enough of this chick. She's the singer in my husband's band. She already broke up the drummer and his gf and just causes endless stress for everyone involved, including me. I just want her to quit and not mess with any of us anymore. I also suspect she may be a witch because she has the guys completely blind to the harm she's caused me. What can I do to get her out of our lives?
I wouldn't assume she's a witch because she manages to blind men from what her true intentions may be. In fact, many people who like to manipulate others to actualize themselves manage to do this. It's a phenomenon I haven't quite figured out yet myself...
I wouldn't personally look to magic for this issue because it's such a complex problem that a simple spell most likely won't be able to do much for you in changing the issue.
Re: what kind of spell? By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable Jun 16, 2012
Post # 5
Some people are just naturally talented at persuasion and manipulation, the type of people who would make great lawyers if they have the intellect. She doesn't necessarily have to be a witch, but I believe all such abilities connect with naturally with magick on a certain level. Magick is, after all, when we focus our will and believe something will occur, manifesting it. People talented with charming others (in a pleasing not magick sense) just have a more hands on approach. We don't need to cast a spell to exude a certain energy and impress our will.
I would agree that a spell to bind or freeze may work, but I would alternatively suggest that you cast a ritual to reveal the truth to those you desire not to be fooled. Be sure before casting such a ritual that your truth is the real truth and not a bias viewpoint, or else it could backfire on you. Truth spells are tricky like that.
Re: what kind of spell? By: bttrflymoon Jun 16, 2012
Post # 6
I'm not assuming, just suspect. I thought about a freeze spell but first I don't want my husband to find it and second would that cause her to quit? Also they do see some of the other problems she's caused, just not what she's done to me. So it is a complicated situation. I just don't want her anywhere near my husband. She already broke up one relationship with very little effort, she's put in a lot more towards my husband and it hasn't worked yet but I doubt she's going to stop. Thanks everyone, I have to think about this before I do anything.
Re: what kind of spell? By: blackcat101 Jun 16, 2012
Post # 8
You can wrap the lemon in tin foil shiny side in, so that her wrongdoings get reflected back on her. Then tuck it at the back of the freezer and forget about it. I don't think any spell comes with a guarantee but this is an easy one to try. Men seem to be very oblivious to manipulative women, but as this is your husband you are talking about you could just ask him to tell her to back off. Good luck.
Re: what kind of spell? By: bttrflymoon Jun 17, 2012
Post # 9
I have tried talking to him but he doesn't see her like that, he says he thinks of her as a little sister so of course he's not going to see it. It's good he feels that way but it's not going to stop her. She's also already starting on the other guy, telling him he should leave his gf. I don't even want to get back at her or anything, I just want her to leave us alone.