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Change somebody's mind

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My intention is 100% pure for this act. My mom is a very quarrelsome and angry lady whom nobody respects or loves. I wish her to change her attitude and bring love in her relationships. I wish her to forget all her anger and bestow as much love in the remaining life as possible. This way I wish for a better and more beautiful life for her.

What spell can I cast for changing her altogether? Please somebody explain in detail.
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Post # 2
The first step to calm an angry and negative person down, is to try an understand what their problem is. Only if a person who recieves love and kindness, can she give love and kindness out. To make someone bestow love on others, you need to shower them with love first.

I've mentioned the crystal pyramid meditation before. Here's what you can do.

After you ground and centre yourself, try this visualization exercise.

In your mind's eye walk into a giant rose quartz crystal pyramid. Suspended from the apex of the pyramid, you will see a rose quartz crystal wand. Under the wand, you will find a sofa on which your mother will be seated. The wand is suspended in a manner that it points to her crown chakra. Now sit next to her and talk to her. Tell this person how you feel and listen to what he or she has to say. Ask her why she's so angry and if there is something you can do to make her happier. Clear her misunderstandings. Show this person your good side. Give her a hug. Tell her you love her and always will, no matter what.

The rose quartz crystal generates love. You may do this visualisation exercise while holding a small piece of jewellery, like a rose quartz pendant or studs, in your right hand. Once your done, you can gift it to her and ensure that she wears it all the time.
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You can meditate and use crystals all you want to help her, and it's really sweet of you.

The bottom line is that there is nothing you can do to really change her.That violates the law of free will.

I imagine it must be difficult for you, but everyone has lessons they need to learn, and this is one she needs to learn. This is something she could be struggling with for several lifetimes before or even several lifetimes after this one.
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By: Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 4
As hokey as it sounds, I recommend approaching her with kindness. Respond to her wrath with calm and understanding. Respond to her negativity with optimism. This may wear off on her, or it may infuriate both parties. The unfortunate truth is that for the most part you cannot change those who do not wish to be changed without 'causing various mental traumas.
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By: / Adept
Post # 5
Try a honey jar spell to "sweeten" her up and to draw sweet things to her. Just google "honey jar spell" and you'll find examples.
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Re: Change somebody's mind
Post # 6
try finding out whats the cause of the anger is,and try to help your mom with it. its not a quick fix which is what i think your looking for but if shes been like that for a while its not going to change over night. if not the honey jar spell might do
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By: / Beginner
Post # 7
You can't do anything about it I believe thats against her free will.
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Re: Change somebody's mind
By: / Knowledgeable
Post # 8
Changing someone altogether is changing what they have been conditioned through years of life to become. Unless she herself wants to change, there is nothing that can be done. One can change someone's mind about a certain idea or subject through magick by means of influencement to help them to see the better choice or the one most beneficial to you, but altering a person's ways of behavior entirely is something only a therapist or the person themselves can accomplish through desiring a change.

I went through the same thing with my mother. And I tried various ways to have her see her ways and make a change. She was a very sweet, loving woman, but her relationship with my step father, who was abusive mentally emotionally and physically made her slowly become a very ugly person. I tried to get her to leave him, but she was too mentally torn to feel that she could live without him, and anything magickal I could have done, would have probably driven her insane due to the mental tight rope she was walking. To me my mother "died" because who she became was not who I knew her as. I don't speak to her anymore due to the fact that this consumed her and I blame her life choices to be with my stepfather for now over 15 years as the cause. Some people can't be helped, and they will drag you down with them if you let them. The lyrics by Papa Roach "Tear My Heart Open" rings very true.

The only thing you can do is speak with her and try to get her to see how she is acting and how it is unhealthy. There is probably some factor in her past or present life that has made her so negative.

Also try to get her to see that it is causing you to be upset. Sometimes people won't make a change for themselves, but will do so for someone they love. A sweetening spell may help facilitate the conversation.

But if there is a factor in her life that has caused her to be this way and it is still apart of her life or she refuses to see that her ways are unhealthy, then its best for you to keep your distance and move on. Learn from her mistakes in life and do not repeat them.

If she agrees to try and change, the best course of action is a healing spell to help the process run smoother

Blessings, and my sympathies for having to go through such an experience.
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