I need a spell to make someone think a certain way about me. Kind of like think im a different person, almost like illusion or glamour spells but its to permanently trick his mind
Depending on what you want this person to think of you, there are different uses for oils that you can try. If you know of a plant that is stated as being able to help with whatever you're try to achieve, you could purchase the oil and wear it like a perfume - that way when they smell it on you they'll start to unconsciously feel that way. Also, simple tricks like acting in a certain way that causes people to think a certain way of you could be very helpful.
Why would you want some one to think you are a different person? If that person doesn't already like you for who you are than what's the point?
It's forcing someone to be your friend or love you. Your going to waste your time and energy on this person when there is some one better out there for you.
From experience, the best defense against stalkers, is a good offence.
I don't think I could manage an illusion idea without some form of substance you could drug him with... But, I could think of more than a couple ways to be rid of a stalker.
The Chinese luck cat Maneki Neko (or however it's spelled nowadays) is said to be able to help with keeping away stalkers. Keep one facing the main entrance of your home (or all of them) so that it can watch your home for you and keep them away.
It's also thought that burning ginger or cayenne pepper with the name or an image of the stalker can help keep them away (by causing them to feel as if they're on fire when they think of you - though I don't think they mean literally when they say that).
I hope you can easily clear your problem with this stalker.
The police are just as bad if not worse than stalkers... I would trust a shotgun a lot more... And if you absolutely need something magical... I've used sound to make common pests disorientated and dizzy. you could with some experimentation broadcast something similar around your property.
