I need help to bind someo
I need help to bind someo
By: SilverSmog
Post # 1
Sep 03, 2013
Hello everyone.
I need some help. My boyfriend meets a girl every year during summer. They have had a relationship before i appeard in his life. When he returns from his vacation( they always go at the same place) he is like... dead. He doesn't talk to anyone. This year, after three summers I decided to break up with him. He didn't want to. He told me that he cheated and he can't explain what she does to him. He told me that when they are together everything just disappears. The girl has a bf and knew that I exist. She and my ex have a past. 3 years ago they started a relationship and SHE broke up with him. The probblem is that she DOES something. Every year. I would like to ask you for a very strong binding spell. I don't want her to harm anyone ever again. Can someone help me? If you need a photo I can send you one.
I don't believe that it is "true love" because around december he always used to get back to me and he cared. Sorry for my english if they are bad but I am in a hurry.
Thanks in advance
Re: I need help to bind someo
By: SunshineVal / Novice
Post # 2
Sep 03, 2013
First of all, I'm sorry for your relationship problem. It sounds as though you at least had a fairly open relationship with your ex boyfriend.
Without knowing anyone involved very well, it doesn't sound like a binding spell would be the answer to your problem here.
I would start with a protection spell for your ex. If the other girl has a boyfriend, he may be facing some problems with him.
I think you did the right thing with breaking up with him. He obviously has a close connection with this other girl. And they can't seem to stay away from each other even though the consequences of being together would be to hurt the ones they love.
I would let fate take its course and if you love him, be his friend.
Re: I need help to bind someo
By: SilverSmog
Post # 3
Sep 03, 2013
Thank you for your suggestions and help.:)
As for the friendship it is impossible, since he called me cheap...
Well, to be honest, I'd really like an apology, which he never gave. I mean "hey dude! you have been in that relationship for 3 years! you just insulted her, you could apologize now."
The problem is that the girl loves her boyfriend, she just wants everything and everyone.
Thanks again, I am just giving some more info, since I was in a hurry before.
Re: I need help to bind someo
By: SilverSmog
Post # 4
Sep 03, 2013
Oh and what do you mean by open?
Open that we used to talk or open we can see other people?
The relationship was (supposed to be) exclusiv.
Re: I need help to bind someo
By: SunshineVal / Novice
Post # 5
Sep 03, 2013
open that you talked. It was hard to tell from the original posting but it sounded like he told you about this other girl...
anyway, sorry i wish i had some other advice to help you.
Re: I need help to bind someo
By: SilverSmog
Post # 6
Sep 03, 2013
well, you actually helped.
Thank you :)
Re: I need help to bind someo
By: Cancermum
Post # 7
Sep 03, 2013
To be honest...I think you should let him be. He never cared about your feelings when he was vacationing with her so why bother with him now.
If he is that stupid to be involved with someone who is involved with another man then they deserve each other and you deserve better.
I'm sorry, I don't tolerate that kind of behavior when you're in a relationship with someone.
You sound like a nice and caring person and I wish you all the best.
Re: I need help to bind someo
By: FaithSeeker
Post # 8
Sep 03, 2013
Tell him that it's easy to resist control now that he's experienced it. All he must do is keep focus and believe in himself and he will be completely immune. Don't allow him to give in, he has the strength to fight back.
Re: I need help to bind someo
By: SilverSmog
Post # 9
Sep 04, 2013
thank you for your advice!
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