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I used a lust spell on an individual from the Damon Brand book Magickal Seduction.
This person lives very far away from me in another country which I know can make spells like this more difficult. plus he has always been kinda flakey and also from an old money type of family that sort of always sticks together and things like that.
He often expresses interest in me and we chat on the internet most the time because of the distance.
Then a month after the lust spell, I noticed him always wanting to chat me up non stop and in a lustful manner. He would also always ask when I come to his country (which I come to a few times a year).
Finally I made arrangements to go, but before going I did a love spell from the same book. Though we kept talking for a bit...meeting up with him got difficult when I got there and we never ended up meeting because he just flat out stopped talking to me! Like didnt even open the last message I sent him which is unusual. Even at times when he didnt reply to things he would at least look at them. He was out of town for work when I showed up but said he wanted to meet during this one day in the week. Came that day, he wasnt feeling well. Then I was like no big deal perhaps tomorrow and he was like probably better. The next day I asked how he was doing and no opening the message and no reply....this was 3 weeks ago. I did notice via social media he had left town to see his family but hasnt talked to me at all during this time and he was always did...especially after the lust spell

Has anyone ever had this kind of experience after setting a love spell? I am hoping maybe it may be the universe not seeing it as quite the best time for us spending time together but I wonder what has made him so distant....