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Hi, so I am somewhat new to all of this..I have never done a spell but have been looking into doing a love spell using graveyard dirt and Valerian root. I have the dirt, I got it from my grandma and grandpa's shared grave..they were together for like 60 years. I got it from above the heart and I "bought" it using a dime and flowers. The person I am going to use it on is a man I was with for 3 years, we broke up but have always talked about getting back together. I know he is my soul mate, and I know he still loves me but I am hoping to awaken it within him. What I am wanting to know is if there is anything I should know before doing this spell, maybe someone who has experience with this or a similar spell. Thanks!