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Hello. I'm new to this forum and I have a dilemma in which I'm unsure how to handle it. I have been dating this man off and on for almost 3 years now. When we first got together things were great and I fell fast for him. After a while he became distant and never said why. We seem to go back and forth and it bothers me. I paid someone to do the candles for me. She also did something with ice, cold water, and his picture. After that he cut all communication with me. I later went to someone else that did strictly the candles and we have seen each other once but the distance still remains. I have a honey jar, but I am using molasses. Things aren't getting any better. I would like for us to become close and have an unbreakable bond. Can anyone give a suggestion? Thank you in advance.