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My fiance and I are having a handfasting ceramony in September and I was wondering what others ideas are on how I can incorporate my religion into the ceramony without offending all my relatives who of course have no idea I'm wiccan or should I say into magic because I don't follow the wicca religion faithfully. I kinda take bits and pieces from all religions and use them to enlighten myself. I quess I'm rambling. But I was just wondering if anyone had ideas that wouldn't be too obvious but we would know what they meant. Thanks for your time.