Hello everyone! I desperately need to put someone on my fridge (I know, it sounds funny), I´ve done this in the past to keep people out of my life so that they would stop bothering me and it 100% worked. However this time I have concerns over what I could actually achieve with this type of spell.
I want this person to stay out of my life, but I dont want to freeze them in the spot they are in right now. I want them to be able to become a better person and have a great life, but without me in it.
will a freezing spell allow me to do that? Are there any other type of spells that would allow me to keep someone out of my life but still letting them have a wonderful life?
I´m not looking for a curse or hex of any kind.
Sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language.
Personal Gnosis here, but it sounds to me like you just want yourself and this other person to just go your separate ways. Like hitting a fork in a forest trail where you can shake hands, say farewell, and each follow your own paths from that point on.
My go-to for something like this would be a working centered on the idea of separating bonds or cutting ties. Some might consider it a karmic cutting of bonds as well. And the process is pretty simple. You just need something to represent yourself, something to represent the other person, some string, and either your athame, a knife, scissors, or a candle flame.
Set yourself up by declaring each figure, one is you and one is the other person. Take a length (or three or seven, depending on how close you two were/how strong of an emotional bond you feel) of string and tie one end to yourself, the other end to the other person.
As you tie the string, declare it as the personal, emotional, and spiritual/karmic link between you. Do so for each string you tie. Then, get your cutting implement or candle ready. Make a declaration of separation that most resonates with you and your situation, and cut snip or burn one string to break it. Repeat until there are no more strings attached.
If the separation was less than amicable, this is where I would suggest placing your ... well... 'you' in an elevated and prominent place in your home for a few days. Somewhere figuratively and literally uplifted. And toss the other into the literal trash to be taken out with the rest of the refuse.
But perhaps seeing as this is more of a friendly parting of ways, you might send this person their representation and tell them it is a good luck charm to put up in an elevated place of his/her own. Either that or just walk it kindly out of your home, as if seeing a friend out after a good visit. Then set it quietly somewhere associated with travel or journeys... like a bus stop, park, bike rack, forest trail, train tracks (just not on them, *laughs*) or any form of crossroads.
Hi,thank you very much for your kind response!
A little update, this person ended up doing some awful things since i made this post.
I put them in a jar in my freezer, I´ve been the bigger person for far too long haha.
