Energies that cant change

Hello, so i have a delema. Sorta.

I casted a disattract friends and a unnoticeable spell for myself a while ago. I tried to convert my positive energy to negative for the intent if the spell. It clearly didn't work becuase people have been seeing things I have done for others or see me be kind to others, and wanting to talk to me/be my friend. It made a small "circle" crowd in which I wasnt to thrilled with.

I do have a problem with not being overly cruel, as I hate seeing others in pain and I have the tendancy to be "bright" to others in my workplace and school. A few people asked for my number to keep further contact this week, I really dont know if positive energy has made the spell not work.

Thoughts?

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You can always try to cast it again.

Try to really feel the emotion. If it makes you feel forced, like you're forcing it, perhaps it's best not to, and wait.

It doesn't particularly sound like you're a negative individual. It sounds as if people take a liking to you, perhaps even naturally.

I'd consider trying the spell again and giving it a little more time.

Practicing helps.

Also if it is a site spell you may wish to write up your own instead. It may be better to write your own around your own techniques.

@Romanruin

I've been told that I am usually a person that people like to hang around. I don't enjoy being cruel or overly negative to people.

I seem to have to force myself to get my negative energy to really "be into the spell" if that makes sense. As for writing, i usually do as I have certain ways to cast.

From personal experience, I would say it isn't so much your personality that might be attracting people, although having a outgoing one and being seen as a empathdoes draw in people, but you may just be carrying positive energy. Most people are drawn or attracted towards someone (not in a infatuation sense) because of the positive energy they carry. I believe you posted another question looking to change your personality to a cold one. Even changing your personality might not give you the results you want if you are still carrying that positive light. Think of Eeyor from Pooh. He is negative and depressed but his friends are all still drawn to him because of his energy. He isn't mean but kind.

If you are feeling drained because you are too nice and can't say no to people and you feel that they are taking advantage of you (often feeling like a door mat) then I would focus on not pushing people away but rather building your confidence and recognition in your own personal needs. It isn't being selfish wanting to take care of yourself. People that are taking advantage of your kindness may sometimes push this agenda on you but you must not let that feeling manifest. Self care sometimes means telling people no.

Hope this helps your situation.

Good luck

~Kaurora

When it comes to a cloak type spell you need to have a quiet mind and/or strong emotion. Negative energy is good for a short lived enchanting. In order to truly disappear you need to become more like the air in the room who is observant and quiet.

Another option to perhaps consider (I'd say to do some reading on the topic first) is Crowley's Rose Cross ritual. It was made as a banishing of sorts, and unlike the Lesser Pentagram Ritual, which lights you up as a personally emopowering experience, this minimizes the person and makes them less noticeable in the, uh, "energetic" sense. It's not like some kind of fantasy invisibility spell. But people have said it can result in less attention from others, whether physical people or metaphysical entities.