For 6 months i engaged daily with an occult practitioner (Crowley, sexual alchemy, Tarot, hermetic illuminism, spirit evocation, binding) in conjunction with explicit and covert hypno, plus NLP plus use of intox.
Her stated goal as a Goddess was to be venerated, for me to unite myself to her - and to have her essence consume my every thought.
Over our time i became more and more dependent upon her. i am an in-the-closet sissy - and she very much wanted me to embrace a trans life, including hormones, sub sex with guys, and chastity. After those initial 6 months, there was finally a MDMA-fueled 2-hour session which included the raising of my spirit from my body, and my intentional burning of that spirit (breathing in the smoke with specific chanting, and the discarding of the ashes). That spirit's remains were left behind, followed by astral projection, and then a "rebirth" as a result of a sexual experience with Pan.
I have sincerely felt like a different person ever since. Hollowed out. Disassociated. The new me has none of the same interests. She said that was on purpose, so I would only have her, submissive sex, and drugs. Years of that level of debasement would humble me for me life at her feet. I was furious that she did this without my permission. I've been staying away from her, but i think about her non-stop.
what should I do? I can explain how far i would go to not feel this empty. i understand that i'll never be the same. that person is gone. i hate myself, and thus i would be willing to be modified into whatever the right person wanted me to be - as long as i didn't feel this alone. for that right person i would take part in any and all rituals, etc they wanted. Phone, cam, whatever.
please don't dismiss this as the plight of some idiot ... I'm a 38 yo college grad and business owner ... my consent would most certainly be informed, and I would compensate for the time it took. ideally, we would talk on the phone 5 or 6 days a week. otherwise, my need to fill this emptiness will result in letting her take full control or, if alone for much longer, my total destruction. ANY advice about how i could be helped, and by whom, would be MUCH appreciated. Jamie
Re: feeling desperate By: Lark Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 2 Jul 02, 2020
Well, to start with, this woman was not a Goddess, just a rather twisted and sadistic person who understood how to psychologically damage another human being, namely yourself. None of what she did to get you to where you are now is actually the result of magic. It is more psychological manipulation of the nastiest sort.
Have you sought professional help? In my opinion, the best thing to do is to find a reputable counselor and start working with them to help you divest yourself of this dissociation you are feeling. I suspect it's going to take time and effort before you are feeling more like your old self again, but it is possible to do.
And most of all, stay away from this woman no matter what she says or does. You cannot let her keep dragging you into her wiles if you are going to move on with you life. Think of it like an addict needing to stay away from drugs. In this case, she is the drug you need to avoid.