Hello, there's this guy i broke up with in 2012, i no longer have feeling for him or interested in him in any way, however its 2020 and he can't or to be more accurate "refuses" to move on from me. constantly bothering my phone be it regular calls, fb messenger or whatsapp. i told him already I'm not on him like that anymore but according to him I'm the one he loves and thats all there is to it... so i was thinking since my words arent reaching him is there a spell you i can cast to get rid of him? nothing to hurt him... probably something to make him come to the terms that I'm not in love with him or maybe he meets someone else to catch his heart and be happy. any suggestions accepted. P.s I'm sorry for the entire novel lol
You should start by doing a cleansingand protection spell on yourself. His interactions towards you are leaving anxiety and negative energy that you shouldn't have to carry.
The banishing spell recommendation is a good idea. You can write your own or find one that suits you. You will also need to remove him from all services like Facebook, whatsapp etc. I am not overly familiar with most of these services but you will need to block and remove him completely. He can't accept friendship so you cannot remain friends. I would also block his phone number to prevent getting messages from him. If you don't want to remove him you are leaving an invitation open to allow him to keep the delusionhe still has a chance and he will continue to pursue this. If he messages you, do not respond. You must cut him off completely and remove him from your life.
Good luck and if the persistence continues and causes you further anxiety or fear, start recording this and then apply for a Protection Order. This will cause him to be arrested if he violates it and contacts you. Most will back off and get the hint but you need to protect yourself from a potentially hazardous and toxic situation.
For a banishing spell you can use the one provided by the other responder, or you can write your own. The timing and ingredients are up to you. You use what you feel will highlight your intentions.
You can research some cleansing spells and protection spells or even look into cleansing baths. You want to depart the negative energy that he has left attached to you. You can also look into crystals depending on what you feel drawn to. Check around your area and see if there are any places that sell rocks and crystals or you can order on line. (I prefer in person as I can feel the rocks and crystals before I buy them. Sometimes you will feel drawn to one in particular, go with your gut) Basic and inexpensive crystal you can use for either spells or to carry in your pocket is quartz (Clear, Smokey or Rose-Rose tends to be more expensive because it is popular right now) But quartz is the staple in everything. It is excellent for cleansingenergy. If you feel it needs to be recharged you can fill a small bowl with salt and place it in the salt overnight, or you can leave it out exposed to the full moon (either outside or in a window sill facing the moon)
It is best if you come up with the methods you want to use based on your practice and beliefs. Do a little research on here, there are many posts and articles on cleansing as well as shielding/protection and even banishing spells.