Hi I'm trying to see if there are any spells to help motivate my partner to be more experimental in bed. I've expressed my needs and no change or even trying. I dont want to force it I want it to come from within them. To embrace their sexuality. Can anyone help me
I would start by researching spells or writing a spell to increase lust or desire. To aid you with this, I would also strongly look into the plethora of herbal sources out there that do help increase sexual desire. There are common fruit and other easy to find items/food that you can incorporate into your spell and also consume with your partner.
If branching out (in bed) is something he or she isn't open to than it may not come to fruition, however starting out with small changes, such as looking into more playful (fore-play) rather than jumping right in, may be a more comfortable way to introduce some fun experimental experiences.
Good luck! It is a tricky area for discussion as a lot of that is still taboo to many, but there is plenty of research and avaiable information out there that may help you.
This will sound like a "downer", but some people are just boring in bed. They might improve if pressed, but will revert back to their core self over time - it's just how they are wired inside, their circuitry. If they don't have a general interest in the activities, they just aren't going to change. Spells have a way of working their magick, but aren't permanent if the person doesn't co-operate fully. Sorry, but it might not get any better. You sound like you're exhausted and at your wit's end .. patience, give it some more time & keep trying occasionally and softly.