I'm really hoping someone can help, I'm not really very good at casting spells, but there is someone who is trying to hurt me, and keep my ex away from me and from his own family.
Long story short, the love of my life got married 15 years ago, and then separated about 3 years ago. She spread rumours about him, and even got one of her boyfriends to send him threatening messages.
Him and I got together in 2018, and she tried once unsuccessfully to split us up but just before Christmas she managed to pull him back. This was only a week or so after he told me how he was looking forward to Christmas with me and extending my house so his kids could come and stay more often.
When he told me he was leaving I was upset but because I know what sort of person the wife is I did not fight it. He had told me that he believed her when she said she had changed, and he would still bring the kids to see me because they loved me, but fast forward a few weeks and she threatened me, and then so did he
It feels like he is under a spell, but I think it's a trauma bond. I have had to come off social media because of them but the children contacted me via a gaming platform and I messaged them back. This is what the wife has pounced on, saying I was grooming the children. I was not, and have contacted the police who agree I was not.
While the police are happy that I have nothing to answer for, I have a feeling that the wife is spreading this lie around about me. And because I'm not on social media anymore I can't counter it.
People who know me well will not believe it, but I live in a relatively small town, and they know a lot more people than I do.
I want him to wake up and her to stop spreading lies
Any help would be appreciated. She is a narcissist so it's difficult to find her when you try to do so for casting or energy sensing purposes
hi katia, you have already stated the base of your spell in your post."I want him to wake up and her to stop spreading lies" (your words) I feel confident that with your intent and creativity you will accomplish your goal
While I agree with the user who already answered that your confidence and intent would suffice in combating this negativity, I'd suggest preparing yourself to move on and move forward from him. We all find people who we consider the "love of our life", but the reality is that those connections can be made with anyone, if given the chance and if you're ready to make those emotional connections. I once thought I had found the love of my life as well, however, the relationship was very one sided and ended in me not only being constantly abused, but losing nearly everything I had.
Trust me, sometimes it's okay to just let things go.
Maybe I used more florid words than I would normally. He is someone who I have known for 20 odd years, since I was 18. I know that I love him and I worry about him being with someone who is abusive. I know she is abusive as I have seen it, heard about it from others, heard about it from him, and now experienced it myself. It took a long time for me to put the pieces together regarding her behaviour; until about 15 months ago I would defend her as just being impulsive, a bit corse, and not to everyone's taste and when witnessing her humiliate him I genuinely thought he must have done something to deserve it.
Having seen the wreckage she left him in before, the fact he felt so abandoned by everyone, suicidal, alone and broke, I do not want him to go through that again. Both because I love him and because I wouldn't want anyone to.
Please don't assume I could take him back as he has hurt me immensely by his actions and words. I doubt I'll ever be able to trust like that again. However, moving on implies I should be able to be with someone else, which I will never be able to do. Even though I am not sure that I could be with him, I wouldn't trust myself not to hurt someone else to run to him if he asked me to. I am fine being on my own. That is how I have spent most of my life.
Sorry Mishipeshu, I understand you are trying to help, and my reply was perhaps a bit passive aggressive.
What I am also not willing to let go of is the fact that she, the abuser, is more than likely spreading lies about me. As she is a narcissist it is difficult to pinpoint her spiritualy so that was really my question. Is there anything I can do with rituals and spells to stop this. I cannot afford to get a lawyer involved at this point and the police will only act if I could prove that she was spreading the lies, and it was causing me harm. I doubt she would post anything on social media, but I have come off all of them to prevent hurting myself further. Unfortunately this also removed my ability to contact a lot of mutual friends so I can't even ask if she is saying anything about me.