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Post # 1
I need a suggestion on a love spell. Im in love with someone who is already married. I knew him since I was 21. I also have a man who is kind of mean to me. Not phyisicaly, but emotionaly. Is it wrong to want the other guy? What spell would I use to find a guy like him?? Can I get him??
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Re: Need help
By: Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 2
First, end the relationship you are in and spend some time figuring out what you want for yourself.
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Post # 3

Yeah, if your current partner is mean/manipulative or just doesn't respect you then it's not a good partnership. I really hope you can get out of that relationship. I don't think anyone can tell you if how you feel is right or wrong though.

You can't just magically make the perfect person appear, you could try some spells to attract a love interest, but if you're not ready for a relationship and don't know what you want I don't think that it would last long. My advice is figure out what it is that you want, ask if it's reasonable, and when you feel ready then try a spell.

Love magic isn't black and white though and I would suggest that before you pick a random spell you look into how spells are made and all of the components that go into them. Relationships are a lot of work in the first place, a simple spell won't just make it happen.

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Post # 4
First i know a lot about magic, but thank you for the suggestion. I have a lot of books, just not sure which one to use.
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Re: Need help
By: Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 5

So if this man is willing to be unfaithful to his wife and take up with you, is this really the sort of man you want? Chances are if he is unfaithful once he'll be unfaithful again and there you'll be along and hurt again.

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Post # 6
True, but I also knew him before he met her. He knew I had a boyfriend. So its a case of he got married because I was with someone else. He and myself did it before he met her.
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Re: Need help
By: / Novice
Post # 7
You deserve better than the guy who is mean to you. Dump him.

Next, whilst there are love spells you can do, if you have to use a spell to be with someone, it's not true love. Would be more practical if you work out your issues without magic.

Also before you jump into another relationship with the married guy, you need to give yourself some thinking time to determine whether you really want to go down that road or if you only found him more appealing now because of your existing unhappy relationship. Finally he did not get married to someone else because you were in a relationship with someone else ok. He could have just dated her, he could have tried harder with you, he could have chose to wait it out...but he chose to get married. That should say something to you.
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Post # 8
I agree with you. But he begged me to be with him. I couldn't because at that time my relationship was going good. It was not for a bit when we first got together. Anyways, I will look for a spell for general love then. Thanks for your input.
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Re: Need help
By: / Novice
Post # 9
No problem. I hope it all works out well for you.
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Post # 10
Thanks link does not work though.I do have a 1000 spells book as well I can look in.
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