Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year now and I’ve come to realize that i don’t know if I love Her anymore. I dont Want to dump her, I dont Want to hurt her or depresss her which dumping would do. I was Wondering if anyone new of a spell that would make it so she would stop loving me and eventually break up with me? That way we could still be friends in the end and she wouldn’t have her heart broken by me breaking up with her. Our views just don’t match up and it’s not a big deal now but it definitely will be in the future as we get closer to the point of possibly getting married and I dont Think a marriage between us would work out because those differences in views. So please if anyone knows of a spell that would make her slowly stop loving me I’d love to know about it. Thanks.
Before I touch on magic, this relationship is headed in one of three directions, most likely, sooner or later:
1: She will pick up on your disinterest and break up with you
2: You will tire of pretending in the relationship, and break up with her
3: At least one of you will pretend well enough to continue the relationship solely to make the other happy. This will make that one person miserable for a very long time, but it will likely eventually result in one of the first two scenarios, only with more time's worth of baggage attached.
If you no longer love her, it is worth sitting down to have a talk with her.
As for magic, the first thing that comes to mind is Cupid. Though this god is often depicted as a cherub who shoots arrows of love to bring people together, there is another side: Cupid also carries arrows of lead, which kills love. I very much like this concept of duality about Cupid. Perhaps an evocation is in order, with an offering and request to be made. If you have lost feelings for your other, and want her to feel similarly, Cupid's lead arrowheads may be just the trick.
