Hey! You'll find people don't really condone love spells on here, as it takes away the free will of another. In my opinion (which varies from others) it's not even possible to make someone truly love you or come back to you if they do not already wish to be with you.
What you can do is try and use magic/belief to get over him, or if you think he still loves you a spell to encourage or push things along a little. I always suggest you use your own spells, since you're aware of your situation and the materials you have. They're not that difficult to make and I'm sure people will let you tweak theirs to fit your needs if you ask them.
By the way you can find spells people have written themselves on this site, under someones profile in the history section I'm pretty sure.
Go to obsessions spell at the bottom of the page, Distance doesn't matter
magic is magic,your influencing there thought it doesnt matter whether they near or far ,It all depends on your belief system if you know it will work for sure,Don't let someone negativity come in your way who say you cant force someone. Manipulation is for real ,It comes in the category of black magic .I have been myself victim of a love spell before