I m in love. It is mutual. I did not use a love spell, even though I wanted to. I think they might interfere with free will. What are your opinions? I am asking. I sometimes use a call me spell. Is that wrong? I want to do a spell to ask for a sustaining love free from conflict.
In my personal opinion yes they are wrong because they affect someone's freewill. I think all spells are "wrong" if they are done without someone's consent. Just like you shouldn't touch someone or tamper with their belongs without their permission, directly influencing their lives, thoughts, or emotions without consent is technically wrong. (With that being said I do personally do love spells, call me spells, and other spells that influence freewill. Although I think it's morally wrong I still do them - I just wanna be upfront and honest!)
But I don't think a spell for a conflict-free love would affect someone's free-will. You're affecting the situation not the specific person. It really depends on how you phrase it. Saying "our relationship is free from negativity" or "communication between me and billy improves" is different than saying "billy is stops arguing with me" or "billy does XYZ for me".
Call me spell ain't wrong..this can work in different ways. The person which will call can get manipulated or you can make him call you by havnig an intense feeling to do that-intuition. In this way he won't get manipulated.
It depends..I wouldn't use one of those spells for me. However if a friend of mine is fallen in love with an enemy of ours (especially if he has hurted us in a way) then yes I would.
I personally think so. I won't do any spells that are considered "black" magick but again I am working on a self love mojo bag.Some may still consider these bad. But in reality nothing is black and white. The self love I see as a different situation than making a spell to make someone come to you or love you. It's also not against their free will they specifically asked me to do this. I also believe in the rule of three, that whatever you do bad or good will be returned to you three times as much. If I feel that a spell is making me question if I should do it or not I just don't do it. There's a reason why I'm questioning it. Trust your gut instinct. Plus everything in life comes with conflict it is what makes it not boring
Re: Are love spells wrong? By: MagicShawn / Novice
Post # 6 Apr 01, 2018
In my opinion, it depends on how you do the spell. If you are trying to attract love to you then there is no problem with it. But, if you are trying to command a specific person to be in love with you... Well, first off is that really love anyway? Secondly, as others have said you should never force someone to do anything against their will. Again, in my opinion, casting a love spell on someone to force them to love you is equivalent of magical rape. Besides, would you like it if someone forced you to love him or her against your will?
I kinda think it depends on the type of spell. In terms of spells for finding love, you can cast a spell that changes a specific persons thoughts and emotions, which I personally think is wrong because it seems like magically drugging someone to do things they wouldnt normally do, similar to getting someone drunk enough that they think they want to go home with you, even though they only think that because of the alcohol. However, you can also cast a spell that clears a path between you and someone who would already fall in love with you, and thats fine. I think call me spells can be ok if theres a specific sort of trust between you and the person you cast a spell on, and its similar to a couple who borrow each others clothes without having to ask. Id do it, but only with someone Ive been in a steady relationship with for a long time, and then only if I think its necessary. I see no problem with argument-clearing spells, and I probably wouldnt even classify them as a type of love spell. I find them useful with neighbors, friends, family and classmates/coworkers. I feel like disputes fog up the way we normally think and act, and magic can get rid of that fog. Just my opinion.
You need to do what is best for you and if you are at peace in your heart and soul with it. Then I say do it there is an old saying in sometimes in life you can't please everyone all you can do is please your self
If you are looking for a spell for a long lasting "stable" realtionship, i would suggest doing spells to promote clear open communication, and understanding. Be very cautious about what spells you choose. If you decide on doing a love spell that does anything with emotion, or emotional workings please be cautious. There will still be hiccups in the realationship but if you discuss them early on, and do not let them fester i beleive you can build a strong realtionship.