Did a reading today, was informed that the woman my man is cheating with has put something on him to keep him. The lady say i am going to have to do something stronger than a break up vinegar, not only has she, has also crossed me. I was thinking of doing an uncrossing candle and spell for him and me. A double action reversal candle and reversal jar spell for her. But can't seem to fine a reversal jar spell. Any suggestion would be greatly appreciate. Was told by reader that time was of the essence. Do know she did a break up jar for us but i guess with me burning uncrossing candle and protection candles it didn't take full effect on me.
Honey if he cheated let him go, move on to someone that will be good to you, he doesn't deserve the effort!!! That's just my way of thinking. And how do you know this woman is capable of putting ant spell on him?? I be sending him packing and sending her a thank you card!!
Reversal jar spells use ammonia. I know that. Do the uncrossing work cleanse yourself frequently and do stuff that makes you feel positive. do some more protection work.
Try protection for you and him. I dont understand why the vinegar jar job wont work. Do a nine day VJ with 9 black candles. Use broken needles, rotten fish ...horrible stuff.
Annoint the candles using omega3 (fish oil,) annount downwards. Talk to all your components. Tell each component the work you want done and why.
Draw a picture of the two stick figures whatever, draw it with intent and energy. rip the picture apart and put the halves back to back.
Add that to your intention paper.
Use dog poo and cat poo. Add milk to the vinegar to spoil it.
Work the jar at the same time every night. Now is a good time because the moon is waning. Use the waning moon energy to force the spell. Work the jar and burn the nine candles. Contemplate the marks. Look for tears and bodies separating, trying to get away...stuff like that.
Cleanse and protect before you work the jar. Do positive stuff away from the jar work. dont dwell on it. But when you work the jar focus all of your pain and energy into it. Talk to it, tell it what it has to do. Give that negative energy to the jar and let it do its work, but not be a part of you any more.
These are just suggestions, your mileage may vary, and I dont mean to come off as telling you what to do. you sound like you know what youre doing. but yea, a good jar spell is always worth doing imho. Just make sure to cleanse and protect yourself. Dont learn about it the hard way.
for first you should ask yourself if he's worth it, if he's already cheating, do you want to be with someone like that? i know you heart says one thing, but try and take a moment and ask yourself if you're happy, and what you deserve. is he treating the way you deserve to be?
i would cleanse and protect yourself, your home, and him. theres many cleansings/protections online so find one that suits your needs [you might also consider adding some protection/cleansing energy to your cleaning routine to add an extra defense] washing windows and mirrors with vinegar can clean, cleanse, and protect [as some feel windows give clarity and mirrors can be used as portals for negative energy. mirrors can also be used to reflect energy back at people, so wearing mirrors can reflect any curses thrown your way] if this person is as determined as you say you might need to repetitively cleanse/protect [i would start by trying to tap into the negative energy surrounding you and fling it back at her as a way to say 'back off' some can also use the energy for their own spells i've heard]
for them, you could look into a break-up spell of your own, as well as spells to keep him faithful to you and to renew your relationship. if he is aware of your magickal path, i suggest asking him to cast with you as this would strengthen the spell and become a couples spell instead of one person forcing their crush to do as they say.
but with all these spells done, i would seriously take a step back and look at the big picture, what do you want? if you two stay together, seek counselling to sort through the underlying issues of your relationship, perhaps do some soul searching and become better connected with your inner voice to figure out what you really want out of life. i'm not saying 'once a cheater, always a cheater' or 'one mistake dump him' i am saying you should think with your head and not your heart and ask yourself if you deserve being treated this way and if this is really what you want? is the relationship worth it? do you see a future? and what about him? is your boyfriend happy? does he want to be with one person or is he the type who likes excitement of an affair? perhaps he's not ready to commit to one person? right now i find is the best time for you to sit down and figure out what you want.