Hello everyone , Im a newbie and this is my story.. I fell in love with a boy, we had been together 3 years, he broke up with me last December for no reason and I think that her mother was doing something because he lives only with her and she doesnt like me . I read that I can put him picture with a coin in white cloth and srcure it with a red ribbon , to get him back.. A week later my father got a heart attack and this was horrible Christmas.. After that one day the boy started calling me and saying that he loves me, he cant live without me , we went on a date and he was tattooed my name .. Everything was awesome but when we started to buy things about our new home we broke up again .. I want him back but I want him to realise what he did and to apologize me .. I did some live spells but no result.. I did this with note with our names under the pillow, no result.. Today I do jar but I dont know is it right.. I write our names , put it in a glass jar, cover up with honey saying what I want to acheive, close the jar , light white candle and visualize we are together again , after that I hide it in my handbag and now Im waiting to hide the jar that no one can see it.. So guys what am I doing, or Im doing nothing ? How can I get him back?
Talk to him, be sincere with him, and tell him that you want him back and you want him to apologize. It's not magic, but lot's of times the common sense approach works the best. You've done everything you can do as far as magic goes, but magic needs to be coupled with mundane action. You can't just do a spell and sit back and expect for it to work without any other work on your part. And if that doesn't work in the end, then it wasn't meant to happen. Either you weren't supposed to stay in that relationship, or you're supposed to learn from it and move on.
Using magic for Love is destructive. Love is the strongest kind of energy (unlimited strong) in this dimension. The spell you used to get him back doesn't seem like from an loving intention. Which the spell needed to get it energy from elsewhere (Could be a life). Love spells don't even last long, because it's not true love. You should have invoked his love for you in order to him to overcome his mother. That would have made a much stronger and solid foundation for your relationship.
What you can and should do now, is to clarify yourselves. You can do that by visualizing you aura and clean it with light. Then when you are pure, you can focus yourself on your love for him and send your love to him. If he truly loves you he will come back and your relation will be stronger than ever. But if he doesn't I am afraid you have to move on.
you need to take a step back and stop trying to cast over him and control this situation. you tried, you got some type of result, but ultimately it ended the same [breaking up] it hurts, but you need to take this time to evaluate your relationship [the good and the bad] and learn from it. yes, sometimes people break up not because they stopped loving each other, but for other reasons [friends/family talked them into it, they don't want to be tied down just yet, they got scared, didn't feel worthy of their partner...] this doesn't mean that a break-up is a 'failure'.
the spell you cast worked because he still had some feelings for you and decided to try again. it ended the same way for reasons i don't know, but it would probably be because the spell wore off and the reason why you broke up in the first place was not resolved. you can keep recasting for the rest of your life [and so long as a tiny spark still exists there's a spec of hope the spell will work] however unless you address the root cause of the turmoil nothing will ever change. you will continue to break up, continue to get hurt, and continue to cast in a never ending cycle of pain for both of you. it hurts, but sometimes break-ups are for the best. [perhaps you can even remain friends] but if you truly love this boy you would want him to be happy. one day you might get back together when the two of you are older, wiser, and stronger. or perhaps one day you will meet someone greater and love them deeper.
if i were you [as painful as it is] i would finish the honey jar, and let that be the last spell you cast on him. [i suggest burying it. if possible somewhere between your home and his or a place you both enjoyed being together] from there, focus on yourself and growing from this experience. keep an eye on the energy around the situation and the spell runs its course, but focus the majority of your energy on yourself. good luck to you.