hello, I am brandon. I have a gf and we have been together for a year and a half. She was pretty average when we meet, but after I got with her, I spoiled her. I do everything for her and she has gained some weight. She used to beg me to help her get skinnier again and I have tried so hard and now she has given up because she thinks it is too hard to do. I push her a lot into it in positive ways but she won't get up and go on walks. She has no interest in being motivated and she has no enthusiasm anymore. I think I might have brokded her...can anyone give me advice? If there is a potion (I understand what a real potion is) or if there is a spell that can help boost her enthusiasm or physical energy can you please link it or tell me? She has a really low self esteem now and it is killing her on the inside no matter how much I tell her she is wrong to call herself ugly, she still puts herself down...I want to get her enthusiastic about exercising...
Well, from what I can tell, she lacks motivation. She is depressed and that's not easy to overcome. There is not much that you can really do for her but be there for her and try to get her motivated for SOMETHING. I've been there, depression is sometimes so subtle you don't even know it's there. It's hard to get motivated to do ANYTHING, but you have to. Cook healthy for her, after dinner, go for a walk, get her to get up and move. Find a hobby together, something she'll like and will make her physical even just a little. The most important thing is that she does something that will keep her occupied and in time, it will raise her will to loose weight.
With spells and potions, well, you can do a little ritual everytime you make a potion for her. Make her an energetic tea, lots of antioxidants, fibre and mood boosters. Black currant, Aronia, blackberry and any other berries with a dark red juice is a great mood booster and antioxidant. Do your own original ritual while you make her this "potion", put all your heart into making it and fill it with your positive energy. Imagine your goal and the results. Do this often. It's not going to change over night. You have quite the job on your hand if you are willing to go through with this. But I can see that you love her and that's what's going to help you a lot in this.
Just remember not to be too pushy because it can backfire. When I was in depression everyone who was willing to help me was just bothering me and suffocating me. I started to push people away and secluded myself in my room until i realized that what I was doing is not good for me and it is only up to me to change things. I needed to figure this out by myself.
Be subtle about helping her, it shouldn't be obvious that you are trying to help. She will reject it since it will seem like she NEEDS your help
I would like you first of all to think of your intentions with helping her lose weight. Is this something you are doing for her or yourself? Meditate and answer honestly. Are you more concerned about her withdrawing from once pleasurable activities or are you concerned about her lack of attractive quality?
The truth is this is for your girlfriend to take charge of, not you. If your girlfriend does magick and is interested, I can help. However I would be careful with approaching her on a very touchy subject for most girls and women.