Hello... I am hoping for some insight on a situation in which I find myself, that I brought upon myself. I was in love with a man who I think loved me back. I made a terrible decision to cast a love spell on him-- I didn't know what I was doing, and that some feel love spells can backfire. I should not have done it because I understand now that it is a free will violation, and also there was no reason to do it, things were going fine. I got impatient and wanted things to move faster. However-- since I did that, he without explanation or warning, suddenly pulled away from me. He is now not talking to me at all. When we were still talking a little, toward the end, I begged him to tell me what had changed, and he actually said he felt like something had "changed" in him over the full moon-- which is when I cast the spell! I have since spent a lot of time researching and better familiarizing myself with magic, and feel I have a much better understanding of things now. I recently did a reversal spell asking that spell to be undone. My question is this: does that generally work? And also, I am tempted to do a return to me spell but is that then again messing with free will? I am talking about asking for things to be restored to where they were before I cast the spell. Sorry for the long question... any insight is very appreciated, thank you!!
First off, I think you should do a full cleansing of yourself and your altar, second, you shoud always cast a circle or some other form of protection before doing any spells so that if it does mess up it won't harm you. I don't think it would be a good idea for you to try a "return to me" spell, if anything just try to talk to him and see if that helps, if it doesn't then just leave him alone for a bit.
Sorry this has happened to you friend. Blessed Be.