I find meself in the most direous of narrow inroads... more crooked than straight, indeed. I have been cursed! A woman bends her will to my very dreams. Insidious and relentlessly touching upon alpha and beta like the tide of the sea in storm. She mocks me with her imagined scent so like peaches and heavy cream, warmly, flakey buttery crust topped with crystals of oversized sugarcane... Making me hungry... no ravenous! Immediately upon waking. I am in need, witches! Please do offer generous help to myself as I forgot nd meself heavier by the day.
I imagine some might disagree with you as to the relationship between the efficaciousness of magic and belief. Not meself, admittedly. My problem I imagine is in part due to my desire to believe in said tantalizing curse! Ahh! Now we stumble upon another curse... Introspection! Much less appetizing than beautifully delicious witches! Perhaps a witch among us knows of a magic to strike self awareness away like cream crumbs brushed from shoulder.
Uh... Little confused by your quandary. You fear you have been cursed or you have fallen for a woman? [Sorry, your flowery language confuses me a bit]
If it's a curse you could do a cleansing of yourself and your home followed by a protection spell. Afterwards just ignore it. If you doubt your cleansing you can let negative energy back in. Also, as Brysing said, curses have power if you believe in them. Personally a curse has a little bite even if you don't believe, but your fear and negative energy feeds it, so it will go away if you ignore it. Without energy magick of any kind doesn't work.
If it's an infatuation with a woman I'm not too sure on the situation so I can't give much advice, but perhaps a honey jar to 'sweeten' her to your affections [but that might go against your morals]
Again, not entirely sure on your problem, but I hope I could of been of some help. Good luck to you.