Since I've been little I've been able to adorb energy from anyone tht I'm close to, through a simple touch or a hug. I don't know how I do it or even how to really control it. My ex-boyfriend has told mw that he feels like I'm draining all his energy from him physically (after a few mins of cuddling). My dad says me and my brother just from one little hug, take all his energy making him sleepy.
My (now ex) boyfriend told my friends in a group chat that we were in, that I was a "drainer" and I have been than refered to as a type of vampire which makes no sense as to what I am? Can anyone explain this? Is draining energy a curse or gift?
What it sounds like your talking about is an 'energy vampire.' This is generally seen as a negative thing because it is supposedly caused by 'spiritual' or emotional weaknesses. Generally, if someone is draining the energy from someone, it makes them feel bad or upset and negative because the good energy is being manipulated or taken.
If you think you are draining other people's energy, I would look at yourself. It may be as simple as cleansing the energy around you and doing some meditation work.
You also just be casting a spell subconsciously to draw in energies around you, if you are power-hungry, you have a higher chance of subconsciously casting a spell that drains energy. If you want, I am creating a power dampen spell that might work for you.
So I can be doing this subconsciously? I found out my little brother and baby sister seem to have the same effect on others so does that mean its most likely a gift the three of us share? Wouldn't that make us energy vampires or drainers or something??
Yes, you would all be psi vampires. I'm no expert so I can't help you much, but subconsciously you will 'drain' another living beings energy. I'm not certain how you control it, but you need to work on it. I think energy work [charging and grounding] could help you, but try and connect with yourself [deep meditation for example] so you can try and catch yourself when you start to tap into another's energy.
It's pretty obvious your energy vampyre y'all like the attention.No non vampyre would post something like this,because it's kinda situation were people feel weird talking about.Vampyres are made don't think it's a curse.You brought it upon yourself.