I'm not planning on doing one, i just want to know because i remember doing a some last year that never worked. They were ALL for this one guy that i liked and one was just to attract a guy into my life. I did atleast 5 in total and two of them were done by people on the site. The other one's i did myself but nothing ever happened i don't know why. =/ I think i may have something in my backyard that i planted for one of them. That thought just popped into my head that i never got what i wanted. I never got together with that boy i liked and i'm still single!
Sometimes spells take months even years. By doubting the spell you stop it from work. Chaos magicians believe that belief is the biggest tool you have in magic(k) so if you ever doubt your spell won't work.
Alright, well i don't remember if i doubted for these specific spells but back i did doubt a lot when i first got started with magic. Maybe that's what the problem was, however i figured that maybe if i doubted a little bit and then found my faith again it would still work. =|
They have a saying "Everything happens for a reason." It's possible that, as previously mentioned, the two of you aren't meant for each other. There could very well be someone out there better suited for him and for yourself. The universe might be trying to tell you that, in an ever so subtle manner.
My advice, let him go and don't worry so much about it. I know it may not seem fair, but you will eventually find someone that will love you, treat you right, etc. You will eventually find one more suitable for you. Things take time. Be patient and eventually that special someone will come your way.
But you don't understand I've been stressing over him for almost a year and a half now. :( I was so sure he was the one for me I still have trouble sleeping at night. But I guess if it's not what the universe wants for me then I can try to move on like okay.