I've heard mixed views about what people think about them, some of them don't believe them to be real in the first place. From my experience, and learning from Erik Vonroth, i've learned they are gentle, loving creatures.
But i'd like to know about your experiences with these beings if you have any. And make sure you are 100% sure that it indeed was either a succubus or an incubus.
The Succubi/Incubi Spirit