It is not a little thing trust me and not to sound rude but sometimes geting close to a sister is not as simple. We are half sisters. She lives in another state we met 2 times once when I was 5 and 6. She was told lies about our dad. Their is alot more you dont know. And if something may seem small to some one it could be big to some one else. But I do agree people should try to talk first but that dont always work.
You're 26 years old. You should know by now that sometimes, people CHOOSE not to be close to another person.
Just because you want to be close to your sister, doesn't mean she wants to be close to you. And it's well within her right to not want anything to do with you, or have the situation remain the way it is.
This is a spell of control and selfishness. No where in here does it express your concern for her, her feelings, her wants or needs.
If this is how needy and demanding you are when you do see her, I can understand why you two aren't close.
She lives in another state. We dont know each other. And I did find her and talked to her. She does want something to do with me and I never did anything to her. Her mother did not her arouned my dad. She came and saw my dad when I was 6. My dad went to see her when I was 5. I met her twice and fell in love her. And it is not selfish to want to be close to some 1. If she did not want to then I would leave her alone. It would hurt. But I would. And it is hard to see some one when you both grew up in two diffarnt states. And she had to sneak and see our father the last time she saw him cause it would piss off her mum.
I found her on fbook and told her hay I am your half sister and would like to be a part of your life. I have a little girl and want to send u photos. She wants the photos she is going to send me her number so we can talk and happy