I have a question, I started a honey jar for my husband a few weeks ago and it seems to be working well he has been a bit more receptive to me where before i started it he was fighting with me constantly and trying to end all sort of communication. at the time i found out he was seeing someone else and therefore he wanted nothing with me. I continue to work the honey jar and he started to come back but recently i found out that the other woman is still somewhat in the picture and while he spends most of his time with me they still somewhat see each other. As a result i started a vinegar jar to sour their relationship but now im concerned and confused. do i work both jars? i have read to do the vinegar jar on tuesdays and saturdays and honey jars on monday wednesday friday. but i thought the first week i was suppose to do the vinegar jar for 7 days im on my 4th day today but i did start it on a friday after working my honey jar will this affect my honey jar on days they overlap? do i need to write anything on the black candle? i am annointing the candle with hate oil will this work? Anyone with knowledge please help im so confused too many contradictions in the internet world...