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Hi there! I?m writing this because I need some help with my situation, I?ll try to sum it up:
I have a girlfriend, we?ve been together for almost 4 years and my feelings towards her are changing.
Let me explain better: I do incredibly love her, respect her and I want her in my life but the love the I feel for her it?s more as a ?family? love than a ?relationship? love.
I know our relationship can?t continue in this way and it?s time to end it, because it would be something I don?t believe in anymore, it?s difficult and complicated though because I don?t wanna hurt her (I perfectly know she?d be devastated) and i don?t wanna lose her friendship. That?s why I need your help, maybe with some sort of breakup spell or unbonding spell, something that allows us to break our relationship as lovers and also at same time something that doesn?t hurt her, protects her and our friendship.
I don?t know if all of this sounds toxic because I know that she is still in love with me and we?ve talked enough together about all this stuff, I just can?t accept the idea of seeing her in pain and causing her that pain.
Hopefully we?ll both be happy with your suggestions.