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I'll admit I am a complete newbie. My ex and I have been apart 2 months. She has said that she loves me and wants to be with me but she is hurt from the break up and can't get over it (lots of details there). She also has a "friend" that's standing in the way and using the situation to his benefit. Anyway, we broke all communication, and I tried a sugar jar spell and a come to me spell. Low and behold, she contacts me about meeting, of course it was to give me back my keys but it was progress. We open a line of communication, and I cast an obsession spell (bottle,cotton, brown paper, red candle) and then hoping I could just a clean slate to re-attract her, I paid someone to cast a spell to remove her walls, and then I paid someone online to cast a spell that is supposed to remove obstacles and bring her back. We were talking sparingly, then the day after the spells it picked up. However, it was very emotional, it was pretty much lashing out. I endured in thinking things would get better. They kind of did by day 2, then I mentioned meeting (my mistake) and the conversation ended. By day 3, we are talking building attraction, and out of the blue she says she will never fall in love with me again. She won't let herself, she wants to open her heart to other people, and that we can no longer talk because it is not fair and she needs to move on. I am a little shocked. Anyone have any idea what went wrong? or how to fix it? Could this be part of the early process? I am open to all comments and suggestions.