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I was wondering because nobody seems to clarify this question. If you have been in a relationship with someone you cannot do a love spell on that person anymore correct? because now they have memory and experience with you which should change the spell wouldn't it? would a love spell on an ex lover be just as effective as a reconciliation spell and I have read that you have to do a breakup spell before doing a reconciliation spell but what if the person is dating but not in a relationship then they have feelingsfor multiple people that you do not know. Just trying to learn, because from what I understand so far is that a love spell is for a crush and a reconciliation spell is for an Ex.