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Hello. I am new here, but not new to magic, although I still don't know many things and I am trying to learn more. Few days ago I was searching here for some love spells (I wasn't really convinced about using them, because I've read that these are ''bad'' spells) and someone mentioned that honey jar is a good idea. I want to ask for advice, because I still don't know if it's okay to use it. So... Me and my partner broke up. We've been together for 3 years, for both of us it was and still is much time. I made many mistakes and saw it when it was too late. I am doing my best to change and slowly it gets better, but still there's much way to go. We still have contact, but it's not so good. We live far away from eachother, but in the same country. First I wanted to use love spell, but I don't want him to ''turn into a zombie'', I don't want it to be forced. He knows that I am changing, but for him it's simply too late. It's not like I have to be with him no matter what, but before I will give up, I would like to know that I have done everything I could to make things better and there's just nothing much to be done. Do you think honey jar is a good option? Do you think it can help me? I found a ''recipe'' on lucky mojo and I am willing to try it. I am sorry if I made some mistakes, english is not my language :D