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I have never cast a spell. I have gathered everything including the black candle and insense that Rochelle insisted on in her mirror spell against spells. I feel i was the victim and still am of a spell. I was molested by a priest when i was seven and feel it goes clear back to then. Any how....
She requires innsense be lit and at the end of the spell I close my circle.
I have a wand ...so when i create my circle i go clock wise right? Do i light the insense in my circle and how do i close the circle? any one...because rochelle never answered any emails.I am desperate and ready. can ya help me figure it out?