How would I know if I was cursed/hexed?
So far most people I've loved have had something horrible happen to them (i.e. Death, broken bones, s*xually abused, etc.)
One of my friends said there was a good chance but I'm not sure
Life is not an easy road to take. There are hardships in all forms does not mean you have been hex or cursed. However, you can try tarot if you want to see if you are curse. While also try protection and luck spells.
We have ups and downs, that's life. Sometimes there are more bad days than good.
If you were cursed, you would have a foreboding, uneasy feeling following you. You would also experience misfortune, but you would also feel achy, tired, with a heavy energy on you [when I was cursed, it felt like someone threw a blanket drenched in icy water into my shoulders] You might also feel as if you have a cold coming on, but never get sick. all of these things combine to conclude a curse or hex. If you were hexed, you might not get the misfortune part, but the energetic issues. Hexes are seen by some as short term and not thought out [see Evil Eye] where someone simply shoots some negative energy at you out of spite. Cleanse and protect and that should clear up the hex.
I'm sorry to hear about the misfortunes befalling you and your loved ones, this year has been a nightmare for so many. Blesses to you and yours.
Regardless of if you are hexed or cursed or just having a run of bad luck, there are things you can do to improve the situation.
First, banish. Banish whatever is attaching to you or just the thoughts in your head with a banishing ritual of your choice.
Second, cleanse. After you have done the banishing, cleanse yourself and your space (yes, it is advised to banish and cleanse both the person and the physical area they inhabit). Cleansings can be done in many ways and are easy to find information on.
Third, ward. Wards are used as protection for a person or place. Again, it is advised to use a ward on the person and space the person occupies.
Now, for the cause of all of this, I find it doubtful that a curse or hex on you would be set up in such a way as to injury only those around you who you care about. A lot of energy is used when cursing or hexing. Most people would not waste that energy or the time it takes to cast on some willy-nilly spell that may or may not effect the target. People experience bad things not all of them are related.