well I just got an email from the person, telling met that last night she was able to do the spell, and said when it should possibly take effect. At the end of the message she said that she was happy to cast a free spell for me, and that if I need any more help in the future she is happy to help me. and she is trying to keep her spellcasting free. Hopefully no rip offs will happen after this.
I am very new to the world of spellcraft, so anyone please feel free to chime in. But I would advise you to research and learn about doing your own spells. Your spell will be much more meaningful and powerful because its coming from you. I take a couple days to write my spell. when its worded just so, I burn the appropriate color candle and incense. I then transcribe the spell to paper while meditating on the desired result. I then read the spell 3 times, and burn the paper in a container. Finally I sit and meditate and relax as the candles and incense burn down. Then I collect the ashes, mix them with water and pour them under a tree.
But this is just a ritual that works for me. My whole point however is, Maybe you should do your own, and not rely on someone on the web to do it for you. In addition, taking the time to gain the knowledge, can be its own therapy and needed distraction from the issues in your life. Hang in there and chin up. :)
Thank you, I will try :) I tried doing my own magick but my emotions just kept messing things up. But if things don't go right with this spellwork that's been done or if I need to do a spell for something else, I will surely keep your method in mind.
Again its only my way of doing things. One thing ive learned so far is that there is no set way of doing any of this. I keep things simple with just candle colors and incense types. also I have a few stones. But really. the only one who knows exactly what you want cast is you. Emotions are ok too. Pour them in to your words. That's power. Humans are emotional beings don't shy away from them. Now... unless you are wishing harm, that's different but im trusing that is not your intent. It didn't seem it in your post. If your intent is pure and your emotions are negative, youll be fine. But also be patient with your spellcraft. I cast one 2 months ago and im just now seeing it start to take hold.
If ive gone off track Im open to instruction. But again this is how it works for me. :)
yeah, like my intention definitely wasn't to harm. I just wanted my guy back so bad, it had me feeling so broken inside.. probably the emotions just kept me from fully focusing when spellcasting or something, cause ive done spellcasting for 3 years now so normally I'm pretty good with it