You are an adult and can make your own decisions. The only say they could even have over you would come from living under their roof. To which you can get a job, go to school, move out. You do not have to bow to their whims or anyones for that matter. You can also sit down and talk with your parents explaining the situation. "This is what is happening and I would like it if it would not continue. I'm an adult, you raised me well. Please trust, respect, and have faith in that." Something to that effect. Just because someone is doing something that bothers you does not make it malicious. They could just be overprotective and not realize how much it is effecting you. Magick is not a solution for everything in life. Sometimes good old fashioned communication can do tha trick!
you're right and thank you so much for helping but talking has zero affect on them and they don't let my 26 years old sister (she has a job) to move out either. I have dreams and I can't go out and have fun like the people same age as me.that's why I want to be free immediately and use spells but thanks again for helping and take time for me that means so much
Re: Spell for strict parents? By: Lark Moderator / Knowledgeable
Post # 5 Mar 06, 2017
Spells aren't likely to help you change their minds about doing what they think is best for you.
My advice would be to go looking for a job and once you find one, simply pack your things and move out to a place of your own or with a friend who has their own place. You don't need to tell your parents what your plans might be, just go ahead and do it.
Re: Spell for strict parents? By: Brim / Knowledgeable
Post # 8 May 22, 2017
Catolight, you're just putting wood on the fire, what are you even talking about?
Not everything can be solved with a spell. A spell can't even help here.
I agree with Lark and SilentSyren. The best thing you can do when it comes to strict/overprotective parents is to just become independent and move out.
I know they think they are doing the right thing but what they are really doing is not letting you grow up into a stable person capable of taking care of yourself.
A spell or curse or whatever you want to do might seem like a simple solution, but life doesn't work that way. There is no shortcut. You have to get up and be willing to do this for yourself. It's going to be hard, bothersome and it's going to take a loooong time before you are self dependent. But once you are, oh the freedome =)