Wilpower as a very essence of magick is not to be abused. Unless it is your own!
Do not use spells to change the will of someone you love, that is not love.
Be careful of how you imagine the love you want while performing a spell and in my belief even after that. Do not force your love on someone, merely wish for it to be unconditional and not limiting to what you in the deepest of your heart believe to be for that person. They will love you if they are free
So far in my very limited research i have found out that the honeyjar spell is most suitable, as it does not necessary impact the freewill of others, but their thoughts about you. Which is not to say that you will not impact her will, but strive for the effect on it to be minimal.
More importantly do not abuse the effects of this spell, as in taking selfish advantage of someone's feelings.
Do not obsess over her, the spell will backfire.
I've read that it's most suitable for repairing relationships as opposed to starting them, but i do suppose your thoughts and intentions during casting and after play the bigger role.
Make sure your better judgement is not clouded by your emotions, have patience and do not haste!
Otherwise you will repeat the same mistakes as me and i do not wish that for anyone, be as it may that they give a valuble lesson to learn.
Friendship is the best foundation for love, so do not rush inbetween stages.
You are your own person, with your own challanges that you need to face alone, never forget that and do not believe that someone else may fix your reality, love is a boost, not a solution, be carefull not to overthing and forget other important matters in your life. Have luck and power of spirit!
And wait for more feedback before you do anything!
First of all, thank you so much for the excelent feed back you gave me and i must say, i agree with you. Changing the will of another person for selfish ways is not love. I will try to get inside her thoughts, but it's very difficult for me not to obsess. Love is everything for me. My life is hollow and sad. I believe love will someday save me (and all of us), make loving someone my purpose on life because i can't seem to find another one. I really don't care about anything in this world but love. I'll do my best , i'll try to be strong. Thank you so much. I am so grateful for your reply.
Give a charmed pendant or make a paper love trap ... it requires perfume or roses and water it's basically a paper in which to pour your thoughts of love into... charge it with your love and place it somewhere near or even hand it off to your loved one ...
Since we are talking about love here, what about something to fix what is broken between me and my girlfriend of the last 16 yrs? We have had 4 children together and one passed in 2004 at 8 months of age. She tells me know that she hates and can not stand the sight of me anymore, but i have a feeling this is the work of outside forces like the new people she chooses to associate with, example violent guy and all meth users. What can i do to fix things between us?
Hi please help me...
I really like someone and want to have a serious relationship with him. But I think I may of frightened him off a bit.
I'm planning on casting a love spell this evening for him to want a loving loyal and honest relationship with me. Any suggestions on what spell I should do the easiest the better as I'm not very good at this yet.
Thank you for reading this and I hope someone can help me
re: nekkidwolf and kind the main topic too...
Well, for the main subject at hand, I would recomend using a simple single rune method for a yes or no answer to see if she is or might be into you. If there's a possiblity of yes, contact me I might have something that'll work for you. As for Nekkidwolf, that really sucks. I'm so sorry for you, my deepest sympathies. I recomend poetry, a heart felt letter, and a little bit of witch craft. I'm not going to tell you an exact ritual, formula, or spell, but I CAN give you some pointers on what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. I would suggest a full moon if you want to win her back, and a waning moon if you want to push away those jerks. Apples are a major symbol of luck and love, so if you can incorperate those into your alter/circle/what ever you do, that might work. Also roses and pink and white candles. Definately have something that's symbolic of her and makes you think of you two together and happy, such as a photo or an enevlope from a letter she sent you. This will help focus the magic on her, instead of just a random old love spell. remember, what ever you have left over from the ritual should be returned to the Earth. Also, on the subject of candles and ritual items, black candles banish negative energies and forces and salt water can (at times) be used to cleanse negative thoughts if used correctly. Hope this helped, I'm really sorry for you.