do not ever do By: ronakd1973 / Novice Dec 24, 2014
Post # 1
so many times I read about the downfalls of doing love spells, how they can turn bad, the worse case being the one you love and want turns on you.
well it just happened to me today, after 10 months in a relationship, he suddenly stopped talking to me, now 2 weeks later, he says I'm a stalker and to get a life.
we had talked of marriage 2 weeks ago, then just cut off all communication with me.
I did do some love spells on him over the course of our relationship. wish I never heard of one:(
Re: do not ever do By: Eissy / Knowledgeable Dec 28, 2014
Post # 2
Not everyone has such views on love spells and you can't really pin a bad relationship on a spell entirely, even if it did work. My advice is to just move on if possible. I think it's a little silly to say that someone can control or create "fake" feelings in another person. Any other kind of spell where people claimed to do that and the person mentioning it would be laughed at.
I'd also like to mention that the concept The Monkey's Paw isn't a universal law of existence. Not everything will turn bad because magic is involved.
A spell can have unpredictable side affects, yet what matters is what you do with it and how it affects you personally. I know little on the subject of love spells, but know what you wish to do can only be accomplished by a strong will, and knowledge; don't dabble if you don't know how to do something.
No matter what you say, there are those who will try it anyways.
It is best to caution others, instead of saying " Do not ever do this" or something like that because people do, in fact, have different beliefs on this sort of stuff. It is exactly like those who practice "white" and those who practice "black" magic. They both believe their path is right for them and will follow it. Some believe in love spells and others do not. That is okay. But what is not okay is telling them not to do it at all. You cannot deny someone their beliefs.
I had seen that situation many times, without any kind of magick involved. It may be rude, but more likely that Your spells backfired, you were in fact in a relationship with an ass.
All that "do not ewer" comes from that all magick that affect the free will of other people is by the definition black magick (even healing, protection and so on).
So better luck next time.
hey sweetie... im sure it hurts and i feel for you really.
but love magick isnt like... pure evil. and also, he does seem pretty much a jerk. maybe look back and think, did he ever hint that this might happen? magick is easy to blame, but sometimes (like in this situation ) magick is "grey" if you need a color. not bad or good, and thus, probably not the problem...
If you think of it like that then its going to be like that its simple called the law of attraction.The law of attraction is what you think is what you attract.While you was doing the spell you should have visualize the relationship turning out good.