1) I began a honey jar spell 3 weeks ago yesterday (2/3/14) and I havent seen any results; however I did a very basic version of it: paper torn with his name my name and intention circle on it, placed in honey jar, tied with a red ribbon. I dont remember exactly where I obtained it but it didnt mention to use any candles or oils. I have been meditating over it every day for about a week but no results.
My question is should I just start a new one now that I have done more research on it? How would I dispose of the items if I want to recycle the jar?
2) I would like to work on a honey jar spell, in the appropriate way, for the return of someone; however I don't exactly have the privacy I desire to work on it properly, any suggestions on how to accomplish this without having to explain myself to my 12 yr old and family/friends?
Thank You All for Your Assistance. wonderful Day to All!