So I need the help of the gods for a seemingly impossible task, but I know it's not. Specifically the help of Freyja. I don't want to seem desperate but I love a girl that I have loved unconditionally for years and she once loved me and we were a perfect match. But for no good reason we weren't allowed to be together any more because her her brother did not like me. And now she "loves" another guy. But everyone agrees they just don't work together. I want her back so badly and I think she still likes me but the old reasons we can't be together are still there. I need her back. I have tried to forget about her or get over her but I can't. And I can't use any big elaborate spells or ceremonies to get her back because my parents would not allow me to do it. I can't even really leave a decent offering to any gods. I have been trying to get Freyjas help by praying but I don't know if she can hear me or even cares to. But I need her help. How can I gain Freyjas favor or her help. Also the target says she works with Aphroditi which I don't know if the powers will conflict or anything..... Ok maybe I am a little desperate but I need help.
Sadly I have no connection to her. But I am trying to develop one. I am new to working with the gods and goddesses and I don't have time to work for years to build a connection. I have worked a little with spirits of winter but they can't help me with this problem.
Maybe Freyja is not helping you because she is not meant to. Maybe you and this other person are not meant to be and that's why Freyja is not doing anything along those lines.
I've never known her to create relationships or destroy them and it seems like this is what you're asking.
But if you still want to contact her, remember SHE chooses to talk to you not the other way around. I've never managed to leave offerings I see as substantial simply because I am not able to. However you could always do acts in her honour, or you could write poetry for her. Even if you can't write give it a go and see what you create. Also what other gods do you interact with, one of them may even take you to her and introduce you. Loki did that with me when I met Fenrir.
I don't have regular contact with any other gods so none can help there. But poetry is easy. I have a big book of poetry I've written. And I'm not asking her to create a relationship, just revive a slumbering relationship that I know never died. And I have done and have had readings done on our relationship and everything says that we are destined to be together but there is a problem in the way that I can't solve. And I think Freyja has listened because suddenly our relationship has improved a lot. We are not dating yet but at least we are talking like we once did. And it makes me happy.
Due to free will it will take a while for anything to happen, even with a god involved. If you are noticing a change, then your prayers were heard and are being answered. If you want to do a spell to help it along, a simple candle spell or banishing spell will help. Don't direct it at anyone specific. Just use it to remove the obstacles between you and your heart's desire (again do not use specifics). You can also burn a candle and incense to honor a specific god/goddess. An offering of energy in thanks is as appreciated as anything physical is. I rarely work with any gods or goddess except the Source. I prefer to use my own power to accomplish things and trust that if they are meant to happen they will. Best wishes and many blessings to you.
Re: Need the help of Freyja By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 9 Dec 29, 2013
Be very careful when asking the help of the gods. When they give you what you ask, it is never at the time you expect, and it is never in the way you expect. People constantly want what they do not have, yet also want what they do not understand. There are reasons for everything. Your life is the way it is presently because you are at a certain point in your life that makes it that way. To change it will mean two things, to change "you" or to change that which is around you. Prepare for your world to turn upside down and not in the way you desire. Gods don't give you what you want, they give you what they want to in retrospect to what you want and the way your life is shaped.
Look at it this way, you want an obtuse triangle but your life currently only has room for a square. You ask the spirits for this triangle. How do you expect to get the triangle without severe change? Many people begin to see the change and fight it, so the spirits say "oh well, they didn't really want it". Some say, "oh yeah? well now you're going to get it whether you like it or not!" The gods are not all hugs and cuddles. This is not the Christian god that people pray to for every little tiny thing demeaning the entire purpose of prayer. These are gods that were sacrificed blood, sweat, and tears for. These are gods that people would die for. A gift requires a gift. Better not to ask than to ask too much. Read the Havamal before playing with the Norse gods. Those are their values. That's how they think.