What's My Element?

First time actually seeing this post. Thank you so much for posting this. I feel like I'm constantly having to repeat this.

Isn't there a certain connection that makes you more connected to certain planetary deities and elements? For example, a Pisces can use the Hindu deities Venus and Rahu as Rahu is Neptune itself while Pisces's ruling planet is Neptune and Venus is associated with Pisces. But because of this, aren't you more connected to the element you are mostly born in? Or do all the elements have to be worked with equally?