Using love spells on people is just a bad idea overall. Love spells can interfere with ones free will. Making them fall in love with you or do things they do want to do. So using love spells i would advise not doing unless it doesn't interfere with free will. But if you are new to magick you need to know your basics of magick. And it is better creating yoru own spells. You can however do a spell to help attract your soul mate too you as long as it not with free will. I hope this helps.
i have a question. you said that it be against his will. but what if i then used a truth spell after the love spell and he ended up liking me, or would the love spell affect that. and also what if we treated one and other with love, would that release enough positive energy to reverse the effects of the love spell, i mean if the spell bends an individual's will than isn't that black magic?