Firstly, I have seen so many questions such as: 'Do I have to have a wand?' 'How do I make a wand?' 'What does my wand have to be like?' and so on. This is a short post answering those questions.
Do I have to have a wand?
No! Your wand can just be your index finger. It can be pretty much anything that channels energy, which is the main use of a wand.
What is a wand made of?
Usually, wood. But your wand can also be made out of metal, ivory, plastic even, and so much more. As long as it can channel energy.
How do I decorate my wand?
It depends on what you are using it for. For example, if you are using it for money spells only, attatch green ribbons or a money-attracting crystal if you like. If you are using it for pretty much any type of spell, just decorate it as you wish. A great crystal for that is Clear Quartz.
You dont have to attatch a crystal to your wand!
How do I make a wand?
First, make it out of whatever you wish and then decorate it. A wand is usually about 13cm in length, but you can make it any length you want. See my 'Wand Making for Dummies!' post, search for it in the forums.
If you have any other wand-related questions, just ask by commenting and i'll answer asap. :)
Wands are usually cheap, depending on what they are made of and what they have on them. If they are inricately carved and have a crystal already attatched, they can be about $30! If made out of metal, usually much cheaper. With a crystal and metal, not too expensive. Price ranges differ!
I think Gypsy is referring to an etheric glow when her wand and neice connect. It could be that this is because they connect easier, but it could also be that it's because childrens' minds are not closed to the universe as we are often because of modern society. Think of your niece as a blank canvas and your wand is the paint. It's far easier to paint on something that hasn't already been painted on, no?