I have this friend, at times this person misunderstands me, i dunno how. I visited them in the winter, a few states away. I was kinda shy most of the time around new people, and my friend thought i wasnt enjoying myself, also thought i didnt like to leave the house and thought I just sit on my ass all day playing video games or cards. I only did that because I'm someone that sees friends in person a few times a year (no joke) so i wanted to take advantage of the time and play games together at times. We did go out places too; the movies, restaurants, and the mall. I kinda wanna be with them more them more than a friend, but at the same time I dont want to do black magic to force them to date me. We both like the same kind of music, food and games. We also have a similar disposition. What I wanna do is do a notice me spell for them to know I like being adventurous and going out and doing things. All my other friends think I'm really awesome, smart and funny, but this is my only friend that doesn't understand. I know theres the obvious "Tell them" I have. Plenty of times, and its like they're blind to my actions. Is the spell that I have in mind considered black magick?
Spells shouldn't be resorted to when it comes to these matters, magick should not be used to solve every little situation you have within your life. The simple solution: Tell the person how you feel about them. If you need to go to a spell to simply tell them something, then why persist in a relationship you will not be able to communicate in? Simply talk to the person and tell them your feelings for them, rather than looking towards a spell that will do something you should be doing yourself.
Sometimes its best not to force something if the person is not interested, especially if they've already laid this out. I recommend maybe giving the person space or the chance to think about what you've told them, rather than immediatelyseeking out other methods to get what you desire.