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In the process of doing a love honey jar spell. I've read a lot on this site and others about assessing the way the candle melts and the way the flame burns while its on your honey jar. Can anyone tell me what I should be looking for in the way the candle melts or burns that tells me the spell is work? So far the candle melted but left LOTS of residue all over the jar and a big mess of candle wax on the lid. Any help with this would be appreciated.