on Nov 18, 2015
It is very sad to see so many requests from members for " a love spell". So many asking "How can I get my ex back?".
I am of an age where I can see that much of this is caused by modern living. Everything moves so quickly! In the old days, things were slower.Young people took time to really know each other. Nowadays, an engagement hardly lasts a month!
I have a neighbour who married after knowing her husband for five days! The marriage lasted a month; he's gone, she's alone.
We get members who are young teenagers,some as young as 13 asking for a spell to get their ex back! Ex? At 13?
They are "In love".
But what does that really mean? In love?
Being "in love" has always seemed to me to be a case of "I want!"
A boy sees a pretty girl and thinks, "I want that girl!".
A girl will have the same thoughts for a handsome boy. But that is really only physical attraction; and that, I'm afraid, does not last! It fades very, very quickly.
But if a couple take time to really know each other. If each is prepared to give up some part of their life for the other; then real love can develop. Being "in love" is nothing like the real thing.
Whenever I hear a young boy say, "Oh, I love that girl! She is so pretty!", it always reminds me of the lyrics of a song I learnt many years ago. Here they are:-
At seventeen he falls in love quite madly
With eyes of tender blue.
At twenty-four he gets it rather badly
With eyes of a different hue.
At thirty-five you'll find him flirting wildly
With two, or three, or more!
And when he fancies he is past love,
It is then he meets his last love;
And he loves her as he's never loved before!
So, you see? If you meet the "one" that you want to spend all your life with, take your time! Love can last a lifetime; "being in love" doesn't!