So when you can't stop thinking about someone no matter how hard you try is there some particular spiritual reasoning behind that? Or is the person just being paranoid. Because i was told by multiple people at one point that it meant there was a spiritual connection but nothing ever happened between us and we were to shy to talk to each other. So out of despair i tried several love spells on him and 9 months later with 2014 almost here i still can't stop. I know that's really unhealthy but i can't help it and i still think about him almost 24/7.
I would say your condition is on a more psychological state than a spiritual one, although you could have linked yourself with him spiritually? Though I will say your emotions are so connected with this individual that it has formed to be like an addiction.
Well if i did that that's a good accomplishment for me! Because most of my spells are never really a huge success as far as getting EXACTLY what i want. But at this point i regret whatever type spell i might have done because i don't see the point if i can't even talk to him or be with him regardless. I'd really rather just FORGET and move on it's just so impossible. Anyways like you said it's most likely psychological because of the way i've been obsessing over it, and it really has been eating away at my life.
I know the feeling. Not to long ago I had the same problem (reverse gender). I was shy and we were good friends, but she moved away so I thought my problems were over, only not seeing her face made it worse. Finally only a weak ago I prayed to 3 different gods of love from 3 different pantheons to try and get some relief... And it stopped. All at once she just left my mind, leaving the occasional thought of her behind.
From a guy's perspective, if you are not stalking him or anything, their is no harm in trying to start something yourself. It's welcome to see a girl try and start a relationship.
KCDarkWolf i have been raised by my mother that it is wrong to approach the guy first. I've told her multiple times that i've been feeling lonely and left out because i've never been in a relationship before but she keeps assuring me that if a guy really cares about you he'd do whatever it to GET the girl he likes. Also from experience the girls i see approach guys make complete desperate fools of themselves and that is exactly what she has told me. The thing about what i was going through was that we weren't friends acquaintances or anything, in fact we never met. I only felt the deep connection we had for each other and he would constantly try to get my attention and have his friends spy on me. I remember the long minutes he would just stare at me at lunch and so on. I did try praying throughout last summer to try and get over it, in fact i even wrote letters but none of it helped and if anything it made it even worse because i fooled myself into believing that maybe just MAYBE something good might of happened during the next semester.
AWW MAN WHYYYY?!!! D:::: How can i be in love with someone i've never even spoke to before. >:/ Funny that's what people used to say to me! This sucks i don't know how this could happen. I kinda suspected it to that's why i was so devastated. T_T